Hello everyone,
How is the week so far? great? if not great don't worry it's almost over.... mine was so-so but I'm grateful :)
Sometimes we find ourselves worrying and bothering about things that we shouldn't pay so much or any attention to at all.. I'll like to share a few things I personally do not bother about and hopefully it helps one or two....
Sometimes we find ourselves worrying and bothering about things that we shouldn't pay so much or any attention to at all.. I'll like to share a few things I personally do not bother about and hopefully it helps one or two....
What the future holds, yes you should not even have headache on what will happen tomorrow.. NO I'm not crazy and YES I'm serious.. I'm not saying don't plan ahead, what will life be like without plans I'm just saying don't let the worries of tomorrow take away today's joy. One thing I've learnt from life is everything is unpredictable, things just change, plans fails and it isn't the things or plans that fails that breaks us down but the expectations. Enjoy the moment, do your best, keep your plans in place but don't expect too much.
Who doesn't like you, like seriously this is something I personally don't bother about but I needed to include it.. Not everyone will like you, people don't just like you for no reason like none at all "I just hate that girl" it is a normal thing-you should be less concerned about people who don't like you and pay attention to those that does- cherish the ones that care.. You can't force people, don't be bothered.
What people think about you, just like not bothering about who doesn't like you, what people think is the least of your worries, what they think about you is their problem not yours. Once you pay attention to what they think or say you'll bring yourself down, you'll bring down your spirit and you might go on all year long thinking about it-use the energy you have to remain positive-
Someone else's success, So Miss A works with Chevron, has 20 plots of land and numerous cars-and now you start to bother yourself- why can't I be like that- well looking at Miss A's success won't do anything for you. All fingers are not equal we can never be the same-focus on what you love, focus on being yourself, I'm sure with grace success will follow- Enjoy what you have now trust me you'll forget about what someone else has.
Don't worry be happy! Let me know what you think! Have a fabulous day and weekend ahead!!
Thanks for stopping by!
xoxo
Olufunmi
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This post is so true and I had to really work at this in order for me to be happy. Great post!!
ReplyDeleteI think this is part of the key to fulfillment in life, i'm learning this day after day.
ReplyDeleteThe journey is not so smooth though.
Hi Funmi!!!!
How are you??
Hiya Ugo, I'm fine ohhh.. Hope you're doing ok too :)
Deleteye you so write people are so into other peoples success that they forget to even pursue theirs
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You're totally right... even though it's difficult not getting worried about those things
ReplyDeleteBlessings....
ReplyDeleteall reasons hold true however what you should do and what you actually do are very different things. knowing better isn't doing between, only doing better is better. You feel me?
Came by to check if you had kept your word and answered my questions.
have a blessed day.
ofcos they are different things, but I think constantly reminding ursef of some things will help you avoid doing or otherwise.
DeleteI don't know what questions you are talking about :)
I agree, but i dont agree with when you said "dont expect too much" that sounds more like limiting ourselves. We have to strike a balance.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion... Limitation and expectation are two different things--Limiting oneself is like not entering a beauty pageant cos u think u'r ugly.. too much expectation is thinking u'll win cos u think u have it all. but the point here is too much expectations leads to disappointment.. it's just like not putting all eggs in one basket.. :)
DeleteI agree with you at all of this. We really shouldn´t bother what others think. :)
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I am with you on his 4 things life is too short to be worried about what anyone thinks or what others are doing, it takes away our focus
ReplyDeleteThese are so true!!!!. I naturally don't even bother about most of them.
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i absolutely agree with you.
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