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10 Ways To Know You’re Dating A Man And Not A Boy

Hello fabulous, just a quick post. 

Dating isn't tricky nor complicated I think we make it complicated for ourself, at a certain age we should begin to let go off some meaningless relationships and date real men, manhood cannot be given it's not a tittle it is earned and being over 18 or having a big stature, nice abs and six packs doesn't automatically make him a grown man.  

Some of us women date boys who claim to be men but function like boys. 

Here are 10 ways to know you're dating a man by Detavio Samuels

1. He puts God first. A real man leans on God and is not afraid to submit to a power that is greater than himself.

2. He is searching for a Queen. A real man understands that, if he is to live life as a king, he must be paired with a woman of equal stature.

3. He possesses vision. A real man will never ask a woman to follow him on an aimless journey through life.

4. He is guided by priorities. A real man is ruled not by feelings and childish wants but by order, values and what he knows needs to be done.

5. He constantly pours into you. A real man will never take out more than he is willing to put in.

6. He is versatile. A real man is a giant who stands up to talk with kings but kneels down to play with babies.

7. He does not quit easily. A real man never starts what he doesn’t intend to finish.

8. He is a dream-enabler. A real man takes on your dreams as his own and does everything he can to help you get there.

9. He is present. A real man shows up all the time not just when he wants something.

10. He handles his. A real man draws a circle around those he is responsible for and ensures they are cared for and protected.

Now that you know the signs, whether you date men or boys is up to you! 

I hope you find this helpful as I did?! Have a fabulous day! 

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  1. great tips!

  2. I love this post: it's so hard for many of us girls to find a man because it seems like boys mature SO much slower than girls! We want someone is reliable, responsible, and looking out for us. Yet we also want someone who understands the right balance between work and play-- someone we can have a great time with no matter where we are!

    I'm so grateful I found my boyfriend because he's a real man, he puts those he loves first and always is willing to take the extra step to show how much he loves and cares! It doesn't hurt that he's about 7 years older and therefore has had time to grow out of his "little boy" ways... :P

    xx Debbie

  3. love this i never put considerations on those 10 facts about a real man thanks for he info

  4. There is truly a difference between men and boys. And it's sad that some people fail to see it and fall for the wrong types of guys. Lovin' your blog -

  5. great post.

  6. Wish that I could find a real man!!! xx


  7. This is so true, especially tip 3 :)

  8. Hahaa I love your post! This is so true :)

  9. Its takes a lot of time for boys to grow to men but its better to wait for a man thn to date a boy.


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